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Rules for Gifting Money to Family for a Down Payment in 2024

A gift can make a big difference for a family member buying a home, but there are many tax and (non-tax) considerations for the gift giver.


Key Takeaways

In 2024, you can gift up to $18,000 ($36,000 for a married couple) to each recipient without incurring gift tax liability.

If you want to go beyond the annual exclusion gift, consider gift and estate tax rules and reporting requirements.

Also think about your family’s cash flow, retirement needs and estate plan, as well as the recipient’s.

Many first-time homebuyers struggle to come up with a 15% to 20% down payment for a house, especially if they’re still paying off student loans.

As adult children look toward homeownership, some parents decide to gift money for a down payment to make this goal possible. Those who can comfortably make a down payment gift without sacrificing their own retirement may decide to help their kids become homeowners. They may view it as a way to make an impact and allow their family members to fulfill their goals while still being able to see the results.

If you determine this is right for your situation, consider the rules on gifting money to family.

Definition of Gift Money

A gift is a transfer of money or property without expecting anything of equal value in return, according to the IRS. This includes selling something at less than full value or making certain interest-free or reduced-interest loans.

Overview of Gifting to a Child or Family Member for a House

The IRS definition of gift is important because providing a monetary gift or a gift of property may impact reporting requirements and tracking of the lifetime gift and estate tax exemption for the donor.

Some parents may want to simply give their adult children a home rather than just helping with a down payment. But transferring a property to a family member or child is not as simple as giving them the keys. The parents' own retirement needs and legacy goals to family members and charities must be considered.

If you want to help your family member obtain a home, there are options. You can leave the property as an inheritance, make an outright gift or finance the purchase for your child or family member. However, because there are gift and estate tax rules in addition to reporting requirements for the gift giver, it’s wise to consult with your team of advisors, such as a tax advisor, estate planning attorney and financial advisor.

Basics of Gift and Estate Tax Rules

Annual Gift Tax Exclusion

For 2024, the IRS gift tax exclusion is $18,000 per recipient, which is adjusted for inflation (subject to $1,000 increments). A married donor can double the annual exclusion gifts to each recipient by “splitting the gifts.” That means that you and your spouse can each gift up to $18,000 to anyone, including adult children, in general with no gift tax implications.

For example, if your child purchases a home with a spouse, you and your spouse could each gift up to $18,000 to each of the buyers for a total of $72,000.

If your gift exceeds this amount, you may want to consult a tax advisor, estate planning attorney and financial advisor on ways to structure this gift in a tax-efficient and thoughtful manner that potentially benefits you and the recipient.

Lifetime Gift and Estate Tax Exemptions

The current U.S. transfer tax rules allow each individual to make lifetime gifts and bequests at death up to the “basic exclusion amount” without gift or estate tax. In 2024, these amounts are set at $13.61 million per person.

Upcoming Exemption Changes

The lifetime gift and estate exemption amounts are indexed for inflation but are set to be reduced to about half these amounts after 2025, according to the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act (TCJA) of 2017.

Gifts made in amounts above the annual exclusion generally reduce your lifetime exemption amounts. For example, if an individual were to give $100,000 to their child, the first $18,000 would qualify for the annual exclusion, and the remaining $82,000 would reduce their lifetime gift and estate tax exemptions.

The gift giver is required to file and report the gift made but may not be subject to the gift tax liability up to the 40% rate depending on prior lifetime gifts made. The recipient usually doesn’t need to report the gift as it is not considered taxable income.

Gifts for Education and Medical Expenses

Certain gifts made for education and/or medical expenses that are paid directly to the providers are above the annual gift exclusion and do not reduce the donor’s lifetime gift and estate exemptions.

Reporting the Gift on a Gift Tax Return

If you make a gift that is larger than the annual exclusion, you are required to report the gift by filing IRS Form 709 at the same time as your individual income tax return. Even if you will not owe gift taxes on the gift because you have not used up your $13.61 million lifetime exemption, you are still required to file Form 709.

The IRS will use your 709 forms to track your total gifts throughout your lifetime. If your gifts eventually reach the lifetime exemption limit, you will then be required to pay gift taxes on gifts greater than the annual exclusion.

Ways To Give a Gift for a Home Purchase

If you decide to provide a gift for your child or family member to purchase a home, you have several options.

Cash Gifts

Gifting cash is simple. You can provide the gift funds in cash to your family member or electronically send the funds to them through a bank or mobile finance app.

You will need to communicate with the recipient to let them know the funds are coming, communicate your expectations for the gift (e.g., the funds will be used for a down payment on a home) and determine whether their mortgage lender requires a gift letter for documentation.

Investment Assets

If you are gifting securities rather than cash, you may want to coordinate with your financial advisor to ensure the gifting is done in a tax-efficient manner that would minimize possible capital gains to the recipient.

Take stock of your cost basis in the assets you are gifting to a family member. Remember, the recipient will assume your cost basis and holding period in the donated assets, which may result in future capital gains taxes upon a later sale, and it may be taxed as short- or long-term gains rates depending on your own holding period.

If you have reached an age where you must take required minimum distributions (RMDs) from a retirement account but you don’t need the money for your own living expenses, you can use these taxable distributions to gift to a child or family member.


Some families own a home or property that they would like to gift to a child. In that case, you can have that property transferred as a monetary gift, but be sure to communicate your cost basis in the property for the recipient to maintain good recordkeeping.

You will need a real estate attorney to help you complete a change of ownership form, change the title on the deed, prepare the deed and notarize and file the deed.

Gift Letter for Mortgage

If your child will be using your gift to make a down payment on a home mortgage, the lender will probably require documentation for that gift. You or your adult children should check with the mortgage lender about the requirements to document a down payment gift. Mortgage lenders have these rules to protect themselves against fraud or default.

Gifts are generally permitted for the full amount of the down payment on a primary residence. Specifics may vary depending on whether the borrower is applying for a conventional loan, a Federal Housing Administration (FHA) loan or a Veterans Affairs (VA) loan.

There may be some extra steps if funds have been in the borrower's bank account for fewer than 60 days. The gift giver may need to provide bank statements from where the funds originated. They may also need a letter that states the money is a gift and does not need to be repaid. Gift letters should explain who the donor is, how much they’re giving and the date of the fund transfer. You may want to keep a paper trail to document this, too.

If your child or family member is purchasing an investment property with a mortgage loan, gift funds are not allowed to be used as part of the down payment. However, if your child is purchasing the property in cash (without a mortgage), they can use gift funds.

If your child is purchasing a primary home with a mortgage loan, gift funds can be used for the down payment. However, most mortgage lenders will not allow gifts from friends or non-family members to be used for a down payment. Acceptable sources of gift money for a conventional loan include anyone related to the borrower by blood, marriage, adoption or legal guardianship.

Using Conventional Loans vs. Gift Money

If you’re trying to decide between providing a family member with a gift or co-signing on a conventional loan to purchase a home, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. There are several factors to consider.

  • Gift funds may free the homebuyer from repayment, but they may result in gift tax reporting and possible liability for the gift giver. A large gift to help a family member buy a home could also jeopardize the giver’s retirement or other financial goals.

  • Conventional mortgage loans typically offer flexibility and interest rates that are potentially tax deductible. However, it’s important for the borrower to consider the repayment obligations, eligibility requirements and other financial plans.

  • Co-signing on a loan will leave you responsible for the full mortgage amount if your child is unable to repay it. For that reason, giving a gift toward the price of the home could be less risky.

Deciding whether to gift money to your child for a home purchase is not a quick decision, but we can help guide you through the financial aspects of the decision. It’s important to prioritize your own financial health and goals first to ensure that giving gifts does not negatively impact your own finances or legacy planning goals.

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